Do Sudanese people consider themselves Arab?

Many do, many don't, and a lot of people say they're both Arab and African. Nubians, Beja and others have their own languages and histories. Let your partner tell you how they see it.

It's a Sudanese wedding tradition, a ceremony with the couple dressed in red and gold, perfumes and a lot of family. If you're invited, go.

How do I greet a Sudanese family?

Slowly. Greet each person, ask how they are and how the family is, and don't rush to the point. A quick hello to the room can feel cold.

Dating a Sudanese man or woman, what to actually expect

HeyArab, Editorial teamUpdated Nov 11, 20262 min read

A carafe and a glass of iced hibiscus drink, a bowl of roasted peanuts and a few dried hibiscus flowers

Dating a Sudanese person usually means long greetings, a lot of tea, and someone who may be worried about family back home. Every family is different, but these things come up a lot.

Dating a Sudanese person starts with the greeting

In Sudanese culture, a greeting is not a formality you get through. People ask how you are, then how your family is, then how your work is, and they mean it. Rushing through it, especially with older relatives, can come across as rude.

So take your time. With a Sudanese man or woman you're getting to know, those long check-ins in texts are a good sign. They're asking because they care, not because they're making small talk.

A few words help too. Tamam is fine, okay. Shino means what. Zol means a person, a guy, as in "who's that zol?".

Arab, African, or both

Sudan sits between the Arab world and the rest of Africa, and people describe themselves in different ways. Many say Arab. Many say African. A lot say both. Nubian, Beja and other communities have their own languages and long histories that go back further than any of those labels.

Don't decide for your partner. Ask what their family calls itself, where in Sudan they're from and what languages their grandparents spoke. It's a good conversation, and it shows you're paying attention.

Hospitality runs the house

A Sudanese home doesn't let a guest leave hungry. Expect food to keep coming, tea after the food and coffee after the tea.

If you visit, bring something for the house and greet the elders first. Don't be surprised if an aunt asks you three personal questions in a row. She's interested, which is a good sign.

Patience after hard years

The war that started in 2023 has touched almost every Sudanese family. Your partner may have relatives who were displaced, or may spend evenings on the phone with home. Some days they'll want to talk about it. Most days they won't.

Follow their lead. Ask how the family is, the Sudanese way, and let them decide how much to share. Being steady matters more than having the right words.

Meet a Sudanese man or woman on HeyArab

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